Have you ever met the first/ex wife?

- Please Select - No Seen from afar Briefly Met once More than once

Is your relationship with the first/ex wife?

- Please Select - Very good Good None existent Poor Very bad

Do you consider the first/ex wife difficult to deal with?

- Please Select - No Sometimes Yes

Has there been any emotional stress caused by her?

- Please Select - None A little Quite a bit Lots

Do you have regular contact with step children?

- Please Select - No children No Sometimes Yes

Do your step children accept you?

- Please Select - No children No A little Quite a bit Lots

Are your opinions on step children's behaviour respected by your partner/husband?

- Please Select - No children No Sometimes Yes

If no, how does this make you feel?

Have you ever felt alone and misunderstood as a second wife?

- Please Select - No Sometimes Often

Do you feel like an outsider in your own home when the step children & husband/partner are together?

- Please Select - No children No Sometimes Yes

Have you ever considered leaving due to stress of situation?

- Please Select - No Sometimes Yes

Have your in-laws accepted you as the new wife?

- Please Select - No in-laws No Sometimes Yes

Do you feel the money (child support) going to the first wife/family puts an unfair strain on your household with your husband/partner?

- Please Select - No A little Quite a bit Lots

In your opinion, what are the biggest 3 biggest strains in being a second wife?

Do you feel that the courts are unfair towards fathers?

- Please Select - No Sometimes Yes

Do you consider your partner's first/ex wife to be unwanted baggage?

- Please Select - No Sometimes Yes

Do you have a nick name for your partner's first/ex wife?

- Please Select - No Yes

If yes, what is it?

What do you find is the most challenging part of being a 2nd wife?

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