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Oh lord where do I start!!!
When I met my partner 2 and
a half years ago he told me he was divorced and had 2 kids and I thought
OK I can deal with this as I came from a divorced family and both parents
re married. How VERY VERY wrong could I have been. When we got
together I realised they didn't have the most conventional of divorces, by
that I mean they still did family things and went on holiday together and
had slept with each other a couple of times, she would phone for just a
chat in the evenings while we were trying to enjoy us time. At first
I thought she needs time to adjust to him having a regular girlfriend (as
he had not had a relationship that lasted more than a few weeks before me)
but no she's weak, self centred, pathetic, lying, you get the picture!!!
She found out from one of
his friends wife's that I used to be a lap dancer and am know known
affectionately as that lap dancing whore and get that
whore away from my kids!!! For all those out there who have a pre
conceived idea of a lap dancer I was young and stupid and regret doing it
but hey that's where I met my partner, and I quit when we got together and
am now studying to be a nurse.
Anyway since then she has
turned the eldest daughter against me but she battles with it as she tries
so hard to be nice and we always have fun when she comes here, but then
goes home and says she hates me and doesn't want to come away with us this
Easter, and that she doesn't want to come here if I'm here. We never
hear her saying it, it always comes as a message from their mother!
As I said she cant be trusted to tell the truth.
Another thing (sorry I've
started now so I'll be on my soap box for a while), she complains she cant
cope on £5000 a month, yes that's £5000! He bought her a car so she
doesn't have to pay out for anything except insurance etc... a house that
is practically mortgage free £600 a month and yet still has no money.
HOW I mean HOW can you not cope on £5000 a month.
My partner paid for me to
have a boob job for Christmas and we had to keep it quiet from her as
she'd go nuts!!! He then bought me a car for valentines we had to
keep that quiet too but she found out about both and went nuts saying how
could he do that when she's on the bread line.
At Christmas she had an
exhibition near where we live so to try and help my partner said she could
park in the under ground car park. She had keys so she could get in
to get the blipper to open the gates, she came in seeing our tree went
nuts throwing a picture of me across the room pulled all the presents out
from under the tree read all our little love messages to each other on the
gift cards ripped them open and then called her EX husband and screamed
abuse down the phone ...NICE!!! and merry Christmas to you too!!!
She then said I had called
her saying I had his credit card and was going shopping for the girls'
gifts and what would they like? Utter rubbish, she had claimed she
had no money for Christmas so my partner gave her £1000, after she had
been into our place she banned him from seeing them on Christmas morning
to hurt him not only had he never not been there on Christmas morning but
the girls missed their daddy, so she managed to ruin Christmas morning for
all of us.
To make matters worse she
use's the girls constantly against him he's so frightened of her not
allowing him to see the kids that he does everything she wants, and it
drives me to my wits end!!! Now she sends the kids over with left
over food for him and yet he thinks its ok and can't understand why it
annoys me!!!
Now she thinks she's the
next bloody Deric Acora and that she's a white witch and goes to physic
classes!!! She also believes in Karma which is a joke or she'd us to get
on with our lives ... its no wonder she can't keep a boyfriend in the 2
yrs that my partner and I have been together!!
