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I have only just literally
separated from my husband whom I have known for 10 years and married to
for 7 years. Marriage ended in both physical and verbal violence but
truthfully the relationship ended 2 years ago before it actually ended 8
weeks ago. I am finding it extremely difficult to cope with the situation.
However, I have met an ex of
about 13 years ago. He has never married, but has a 10 years partner with
two kids. He has been showering me with love and attention and I know he
still loves me from our conversations. I loved him when we were together
and I know I still love him. He said he doesn't love his present partner,
but they have two kids together, one 7 and the other 5. It's being a very
rough ride for both of us, we want to get back together. I am 39, just
separated, no kids. He is 43, two kids and at the verge of separating from
his 10 years partner to get married to me.
I love him very much but I
don't know if this is a phase because of my present situation and because
of all that I have been through in the last 9 years of my life with my
ex-husband. If we get back together I would be inheriting step children
and problems from his partner.....Do I know what am getting into?
His partner is aware that we
want to get back together, but I still feel a pang of guilt!
